January 2, 2010

Top 5 Ways To Start Believing In Yourself!

By Richard Huntley


1. Get The Right Influences

It always helps if someone else believes in you too. How do you get this? Simply by mixing with the people who will be willing to support you and give the right kind of encouragement you need to believe in yourself. The best way would be finding a type of mentor, to help guide you along the way.


2. Get Rid Of Negative Words

Throw away the negative words such as “ I can’t or I don’t know” for these words are a disease which is hard to get rid of. Start learning to say, “I Can or I Will” more and you will see the difference within yourself.


3. Replace Negative Thoughts With Positive Ones

You must remember some times in your life when everything just went right and you were full with happiness and fulfilment. When doubtful thoughts start to pop up in your head, look to the great things which you have achieved in your life. It will soon top the fuel up of motivation.


4. The Choice Is Yours

Remember that the choice of what you believe is up to you. If you choose to think about negative things, expect to receive this in your life because that is all you are creating. So decide rather to choose to believe in yourself and receive the positive energy and attraction you deserve.


5. Condition The Mind

The last tip for learning to believe in yourself more would be one of the most important factors. Conditioning the mind to its peak level to take you to the top.

For example: If you watch any of the top sports people in the world, they have such a strong belief in their abilities that they are half way they to winning the match before they even start. In sports and in life its a big mental game. I know this first hand from entering in competitions and events from a young age. I personally knew lots of great competitors who had fantastic technique but when it came to the big stage, the doubts would start creep in and they would perform no where near their best. I remember times when this use to happen to me, and it’s very frustrating!
The key in the end for me would be to just relax and control your breathing while keeping the mind flowing with good thoughts and not let Mr. Doubtful creep in.

So there you have 5 Quick tips to start believing in yourself. You can take these away with you now and start to implement them into your life.


All the best,

Richard Huntley

P.S. Happy New Year To You All!

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